Monday, March 1, 2010

Lizard Answer!

Here's the answer we got from the lizard lab:

The lizard you found is the brown color phase of the green anole. This is a very common lizard in the southeast that is often called a "chameleon" because it can change color from brown to green depending on temperature and activity level. They are generally brown when cool or inactive, so it is not surprising that the one you saw was brown at this time of year. You can learn more about this species at: http://www.uga.edu/srelherp/lizards/anocar.htm

So now we know!

Freiliche Purim!

Our first Savannah purim was lovely! Eli and Amirah went to shul with papa for the early megillah reading, and I went to a house around the corner for the late reading for those of us with young children.

This morning we finished filling our shalach manos bags with oranges, bagels, and peach hamantaschen. Then we made our deliveries hither, thither, and yon. Then to a carnival with lots of inflatable jumping things and later a community seudah at the shul. The kids all had such a great time! This is the first purim in a while where I feel like the arrival of purim didn't completely take me by surprise.

Amirah and Raizel were princesses (just like in real life). Eli was the Haberdasher of Habersham (Habersham is a street near us). Purim night he was all dressed up in a suit and vest and looked quite dashing. And Avi mostly refused costumes, but we did get fish hat on him just long enough to take a picture. Hope everyone had a freiliche purim!

Sunday, February 28, 2010

Savannah Wildlife Refuge

We had a wonderful outing on Thursday to the Savannah Wildlife Refuge, which is about 30 minutes away just over the border in South Carolina. It was a bit chilly and terribly windy, but the refuge has a wonderful 4-mile auto tour with several places to stop and get out if you wish. It used to be a large area of rice paddies before it became a refuge. There are many long, narrow freshwater areas surrounded by dikes, and you can park and you can walk along the dikes for quite a ways.

Here are some pictures we took along the way...

Amirah snapped this from the car while we were sitting
and waiting for a train to pass.


This is the first dike we walked out on. Lots of wind!
There was water on either side.


We saw lots of different kinds of ducks.


And we saw our first wild alligator! Apparently,
it's less common to see them in the winter so we were lucky.


Walking back from the car we had a great view of the shipyards
along the Savannah River, just a few miles from downtown.


We all just ooed and ahed at how beautiful it was!


I think this must be some kind of cormorant,
but not the kind you see on the west coast!


We stopped at the restroom halfway through our drive
and Amirah came shreeking in glee shouting, "There's a gecko
on the soap! There's a gecko on the soap" Well, not a gecko exactly,
but it is one fine lizard. I e-mailed the Savannah River Ecology Laboratory
to see if they could help us identify it.


More ducks. Wood ducks are especially plentiful.


Scoters and, I think, egrets.


These last few pictures are just some of the scenery. This area is every bit as beautiful as Oregon, with just as many outdoor exploration opportunities. We are going to have so much fun returning to this wildlife refuge and discovering other new places!






Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Great Shiur on Purim

I spent part of the evening watching this wonderful shiur by Rebbetzin Tziporah Heller (a truly gifted lecturer and someone I could listen to ad infinitum). This website is a tremendous resource and I promote it whenever possible. Hope you enjoy!


Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Ups and Downs and Ups and Downs

What a week (and it's only Monday)!

I feel like I'm still getting my feet wet. Still figuring out where things are, where to shop, how things get done, how to organize our house, how to fit in all the learning time, how Dean's schedule fits in with it all, how to get the purim things done (and I won't mention the other p word!), and how to stay nice and healthy while fighting off viruses our bodies have probably never met before. So many things on my brain that when the title company that is working on behalf of the sale of our house called me to ask some questions, I had to ask her to repeat nearly every question twice before I understood what she was asking. Good grief. And we're talking simple questions, like "What's the name of the company that holds your mortgage?" Ultimately, the answer was, "I don't know." Ha. Since DH handles the day-to-day finances, and I hadn't had the name floated in front of my eyeballs in quite a long time. I'm sure she thought I was a bit goofy. Of course, at the same time, the granola was burning, Avi's diaper was falling off, Amirah whacked Raizel on the back, and Eli was terribly thirsty. Oh, well!

Saturday night we all started a new round of stomach viruses, B"H of the short-lived variety (again). I was first, then papa and Eli on Sunday night. Eli was up six times, poor guy. Now I have a sore throat. Gevalt. Just the price of moving to a new place. I'll probably really be missing that decade+ of teacher immunity (exponential immunity!) I had built up from northwest bugs. B"H these are little illnesses of short duration. Dean gets it the worst really because it always exacerbates his ability to vigilantly do all he can to guard against migraines. But everyone was back to normal-ish today, though Dean and Eli are still a bit wrung out.

The most distressing news was to discover that Dean's job does not actually offer sick leave. A university that does NOT OFFER SICK LEAVE??? In their benefits, they list vacation time and sick leave. They get twelve vacation days plus two floating holidays, their birthday, St. Patricks Day, and the usual holidays. So 16 days + the OHSU holidays. Just a couple of days less than OHSU gave per year. It turns out that the "sick leave benefit" is that, yes, you can take sick leave and it comes out of your vacation leave. What??!?!?!?!?! Yep. I still can't believe there is a university that essentially does NOT offer actual sick leave to their employees. OY. GEVALT. This is something we hadn't really thought to check the particulars on. But hold that thought...

Another difference is that at OHSU, when there was a Jewish holiday coming up, he could always work Sundays to make up the lost time so he rarely had to actually take vacation time for Jewish holidays, which was a LIFESAVER since there can be a dozen or more Jewish days of observance (more accurate than calling it a holiday - it's not just a party at the beach!) that fall on weekdays. So he still got his work done in 40 hours that week, just spread out a little differently. Plus his Sundays tended to be even more productive because there were no interruptions.

SCAD, however, will not permit him to work out an alternate schedule on those weeks. SCAD will also not permit him to take unpaid leave if it causes him to fall behind on his workload. Thus, he will have to work Sundays to make up the time missed for Jewish days of observance anyway; he just won't be paid for it. Grrrrrrr...

So, the essential question we discussed with each other tonight was, "Would we have moved here anyway knowing all of this that we know now (and more besides)?" The answer is definitely yes. Dean really has a knack for this work, and his skills are going to get more and more developed on this job. He has excellent job security, as they keep losing instructional designers, largely due to overworking their employees. So he's just going to have to work like mad, do his best work, and network with other training and instructional design professionals in Savannah so that as other opportunities come available (possibly even at SCAD after a year in this position) he'll be in a good place to nab the next position, BE"H.

And the other reason we're so glad to be here is that we just plain old like it here. We like our house. We like our Jewish community. We like our shul. We are getting to know new friends, and there are so many lovely families. And it's beautiful. Lots of great outings, and so much to explore. It's a good place for us to be. The kinks at SCAD will work themselves out. We'll get more and more familiar with being here. Everything will sink in. Things feel a bit topsy-turvy, but I suppose that's appropriate for the month of Adar! And I look forward to seeing what Hashem has in mind for us with some of these things that are challenging us right now.

So, tricky things yes, but nothing insurmountable, and nothing that takes away from the overall feeling that we are all so happy to be in SAVANNAH! Good night!

Thursday, February 18, 2010

The Menu

Now we're cooking! :)

For dinner:

challah
chicken w/bbq sauce
baked potatoes w/tofu sour cream and green onions
caesar salad with croutons
sweet and sour coleslaw
cucumber salad
marinated mushrooms
coconut pineapple ice "cream"

and for lunch:

salads from above
hummus
roasted red pepper salad
cucumber salad
lamb stew (almost a cholent, but not...)
butternut squash kugel
dobostorte (if I have time; coconut pineapple stuff if I don't!)

YUM.

Now it's making me hungry.

We sure are in the Adar spirit around here! Things are good, there's a carnival on Sunday with food and games, and the weather is turning NICE.

Good shabbos to all!

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Quote of the Week

Raizel: I can't explain my words because I only have one mouth.

Yogurt!

I'm not sure if I mentioned the yogurt curse or not, but a few months ago, after making yogurt every week for years, my yogurt just started failing. I checked all the variables - temperature, cleanliness, freshness of culture, etc. and found nothing to explain it. After failing multiple times I took a yogurt break. Last week, I braved the yogurt frontier again. This time I decided to try something new. I usually rest the milk and culture on the fruit drier overnight. This time I filled up the dairy crock pot, turned it on low, set a cake rack on top with the pot of heated and cooled-to-warm milk/culture combination. I used the same culture we've had for quite a while (especially after taking a long break!). In the morning - yogurt! Delicious, creamy, smooth, not-too-mild, not-too-tart yogurt. We were so excited! Especially since a quart of homemade yogurt only costs $0.61 (okay, maybe $0.63 when you add a spoonful of homemade jam!). Much better than $3-4, even if it is $0.06 more per quart than it was in Portland. :) And it's time to make another batch. HOORAY!

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Settling In

Bit by bit we are really settling in. We finally managed to locate a car - a 2001 Honday Odyssey. It got checked out by our mechanic today and B"H passed with flying colors. There are a couple of minor things that could be fixed, but nothing urgent. I like it better than our old Odyssey. It seats seven instead of six, and there is WAY more room in the rear for groceries. Came with a nice cargo net too.

We had another lovely shabbos with a meal here and a meal out at the neighbor's house two doors down. We all made it down to shul in the morning. I also found out they have childcare for the younger kids, so I might actually go and daven next week. Wow! On Sunday night, the kollel had a nice rosh chodesh dinner and we all went to that. Amirah had a friend spend the night afterwards and they spent much of Monday playing. Together, we made purim masks and had a lot of fun. Then we had the rest of the family (minus two absentees) over for dinner. Our first guests! And a really lovely family with four kids of similar ages.

We've been steadily getting back into our learning time. It was a little slow getting going with the viruses we had, plus just the time it takes to adjust to a new home and the myriad of errands that goes with that. I'd say we're back up to 80% now. A little behind where I had hoped to be at this point in the year, but beyond first grade in everything so nothing really to worry about.

Here's a quick version of what we're doing this week in kodesh:

• daily davening and parsha/torah stories
• adding many new verbs to our biblical Hebrew vocabulary
• reviewing a lengthy of list of nouns and prefixes
• stuyding about purim and learning/revisiting some purim songs
• planning our purim costumes and mishloach manos baskets!
• copying out the morning berachos from the siddur (one per day) and learning what each word means

And in chol:

• reviewing months, seasons, days, dates, abbreviations and initials
• narrating back chapters of books we are reading aloud
• copywork from various books
• weekly spelling list
• fine-tuning our handwriting to make it very neat and completely legible
• should be up to lesson 150 of 231 in our phonics book this week
• learning to add and subtract one-digit from two-digit numbers
• the rise of Rome (and how that affected the Jewish world)
• bird migration and nesting habits
• reading The Hobbit for our readaloud book this week (really nice to get back to readalouds!)

So all is good. Savannah just really feels like home. We continue to be so glad that we moved here. Eli says spontaneous little tefillos to hashem in the middle of lunch, thanking hashem for bringing us to Savannah. And WE keep saying thank you for getting an offer on the house so quickly. We're doing the repairs the inspection turned up. There's a pretty good list for our A+ wonderful contractor to tend to. BE"H all will be finished next week and we can sign the final papers. WOW.

Signing off...

Saturday, February 6, 2010

House In Closing. Check.

An unbelievable thing happened yesterday morning. I got a call from our realtor's office saying they were likely getting an offer for our house. That offer indeed came in a little later. Full-price offer, and we don't even pay closing costs. We accepted the offer (of course!) and the house is expected to close in mid-March. The most unbelievable part - the house hadn't even gone on the market yet! We hadn't cleaned it. We still have to get an electrician in to solve a circuitry problem. But another realtor's client begged to be allowed to have an early viewing, so they went ahead and let them in just as the contractor's truck was pulling out of our driveway. Apparently, it was exactly the house they wanted. So the total time it took to sell the house? Negative two days. WEIRD! This can only be explained by Hashem's intervention. And lots of davening. So, there you have it. I'm still in shock. I scooted out an hour before shabbos and faxed the acceptance paperwork back. Then stopped and got a bottle of champagne on the way home. Got inside one minute before candlelighting.

And as for dinner last night? I think Hashem must have prepared that too, because as of 1:30 I hadn't done anything! I had made challah the night before, and breakfast muffins. Somehow we ended up with a nice meal of challah, bbq sauce crockpot chicken, roasted black sesame cabbage, mixed green salad, carrot ginger puree, baked potatoes, and chocolate cake. We were going to have lunch out today, but that family got sick and just as well since we're still winding down our own bugs, so I gathered up some cold cuts (cheaper than in Portland!) when I picked up the champagne and we had delicious sandwiches and salad for lunch. We were going to have tuna, so at least this was a step up. Lunch was really delicious.

Dean is the only one who has made it to shul so far. Last shabbos he was sick in bed, and the rest of us were a little ragged (from time zone changes, not quite sick yet) so none of us got to shul. He's been to daily morning minyan and loves it there. This morning (his first shabbos morning there) he came home from shul beaming. He feels so at home here. It's just a really good match for us. The rabbi's entire drash was focused on ehrlichkeit (the laws that govern the interactions between men, as opposed to frumkeit, the laws the govern man's relationship to G-d). The entire congregation exuded ehrlichkeit. Dean has felt it everywhere. Yes, frumkeit is just as important, but it often seems that in the pursuit of frumkeit, ehrlichkeit often drops by the wayside. Not here.

The kids and I are still battling our colds/coughs, so we stayed home all day, but I'm looking forward to going sometime soon (and seeing the 25-foot-tall aron kodesh!) and meeting more people. It's very easy to do here and we are all so very happy to be here. I'm looking forward to being healthy again soon (please, hashem!) and getting out and meeting more people. B"H I'm not too bad today, so hopefully by Monday we'll all be back in business.

Other exciting news - one of the people who had advertised a van on craigslist finally got back to us (a relative's death had called them out of town). They have all the records for the van. It's a 1995 GMC conversion van, but only has 65K miles on it! Two owners, and both only used it for vacations. They're going to bring it over sometime tomorrow so we can take a peek at it, and if it looks good, we'll take it to a mechanic on Monday, and if that looks good, maybe we'll buy a van. If not, we'll give up on buying from an individual and hit up the used car lots. There are a few Honda/Toyota minivans available so we'll just downsize our fantasies and do that. :)

Other random things... the sounds here are very interesting. First, the deafening rain. Then there's the excitement when the military helicopters fly overhead (we're pretty close to a base here). We're also just a couple of blocks (barely) from a hospital so we here several sirens every day, but they're not terribly loud. Then, most nights, from 10:45 to 11:00 I hear someone playing bugle calls and it usually concludes with "Taps." Can't figure that one out! There must be a story somewhere...

We continue to love our house. We feel like it's our 1950s vacation cottage. It feels so homey. Yesterday, I dragged the second refrigerator into the kitchen. It had been sitting on the back porch, but we figured the cost of keeping it cool out there in the summer might be a bit high. The fridge that came with the house is on the smaller side, so it's really nice to have the other one. The double refrigerator look isn't going to win any awards, but it's eminently practical, as is the industrial shelving and I am one happy cook. I love being able to (AH! There's "Taps," right on schedule!) swoosh everyone out of the kitchen and close the doors.

Earlier I mentioned these odd brick planters that serve as space dividers between the entryway and living room and the living room and dining room. After we own this house (please hashem) we want to install shelving on top of both of them. I think it will look kind of neat. We want to put bookshelves between the living room and dining room (facing the living room), with one open shelf in the middle. On the open shelf we want to put in a handwashing station (for the ritual handwashing before bread) - a basin, pitcher, washing cup, and towel. Probably a mosaic too! :) It was kind of bummer at lunch to leave our very peaceful dining room, and wash over a giant mess of dishes from the night before. (More giant than usual since there's not much counter space!) On the other planter we'd love to install cupboards to store office and learning supplies since that's where the computer is, and it's not far from the learning table. Anyway... that's just some fantasy about the future... Oh, and we HAVE to yank out all these rugs so we can have the lovely wood floors beneath (at least, what's showing now is lovely!).

As far as NEEDS go on what needs to be done with the house if we are the owners, there are really just two things - replace the front and back doors and remove an oil tank. The doors both have keyed dead bolts, which aren't good in case of fire. I can't leave the key in them or little Avi hands will whisk them away. Plus the doors would be pretty easy to kick down. I'm sure I could do it with a few good kicks. So that, and a peephole would be nice. The oil tank buried in the back yard may also have to be yanked out. We'll have to look into that. So... we'll see! Fun things, and nothing major that's obvious. We love the modest size and the good bones this house has. It's really perfect for us. And we all love the HUGE yard!!!!!

Savannah gets twelve thumbs up from the Earlix Family. It has truly exceeded our hopes so far. B"H!

Friday, February 5, 2010

Great Outing!

We had a great time at the wildlife center. Absolutely beautiful, with boardwalks through natural areas and lots of interesting, mostly native, animals to observe. We had such a good time, except that I fell with Avi in my arms and my shoulders and side got pretty bruised. Ow. I was too busy admiring everything around me and got all tangled up in a branch on the ground. Ow. Oy. Ow. We got a membership there, and I'm sure we'll be back many, many times. Voice is quite hoarse, and I'm looking forward to a little extra rest over shabbos. And the menu? Good question. I know we're having chicken. And the challah's made. And the bbq sauce for the chicken. Mashed potatoes for Amirah. Probably otherwise just a salad and a slew of roasted and/or steamed veggies. I think lunch will just be tuna and salads, but we'll jazz it up. Slowly ramping up the kitchen, and next week maybe shabbos won't take me by surprise. I also got several dozen okara (soy bean pulp) muffins done. And somehow we went through four loaves of bread this week??!? We usually eat 1–2 loaves, so I'm not sure what happened there! :) Gotta make more bread already. Anyway..... off to sleep and rest that shoulder. A hot shower will feel nice. Love to all.

Wednesday, February 3, 2010

Quick Update

A bit tired, here. They all came down with stomach bugs (the messy variety) this week. I've been spared, but a couple of us (like me) also have colds. We're a bit ragged around the edges. We're also having some difficulty locating a plain old, ordinary old, van. I knew there weren't that many here, but there really are NONE, despite all the ones I see driving through the streets. Erg. Hopefully something will be worked out soon.

Despite that, we managed two good days of learning so far this week, got our library cards, unpacked all of the boxes (still a little organizing to do, but it's going pretty well, B"H), got our kitchen up and running (yay, bread; yay, soy milk; yay, beans; yay, home-roasted coffee beans), checked out three vans (all busts) and started to get the lay of the land. We really like it here.

We had many, many wonderful dinner deliveries which eased the transition to a new place and now here we are! I'm feeling slightly bewildered (where are we?!?), quite happy, a bit hoarse/grouchy/unrefined, a bit anxious (gotta sell that Portland house and find a reasonably priced van!), and eagerly looking forward to shabbos when I hope DH and I can just manage a revolving door of naps.

Tomorrow after an early lunch I think I'll take the kids to Oatland Island Wildlife Center for a day of biology and nature study. :) I think we need to have a little outing this week, and we shouldn't be contagious any more.

More to come, but for now GOOD NIGHT!

Thursday, January 28, 2010

We Made It!

I wrote this yesterday, before we had internet access...

Tuesday has just ended. We have been here a little over 48 hours. Hard to believe! Everything has gone very smoothly. After a nice shabbos with the E Family (and our first time using the new eruv!), longtime dear friend JD took us to the airport at 5:30 in the morning, and with his help getting all four kids there and unloading our baggage was not nearly as hectic as it might have been. It was a tremendous help having a third adult to help with that. On flight #1 to Washington DC, Avi and Raizel pretty much slept for the first half, so D actually READ A BOOK. WOW. When they woke up, Dean was pretty busy with them. Avi was a little fussy here and there, but never anything unmanageable. He just needed lots of distraction. Amirah and Eli happily explored their backpacks and read, colored, and played with stickers. On the second flight, Eli, Raizel, and Avi slept the whole time, so that one was REALLY easy. We got into Savannah, and Dean and the two littles took a rental car home. The two bigs and I grabbed a taxi, spent a lot of time with the driver lost (he did refund the “lost” part of the fare), and finally were reunited with the rest of them. Seems that I knew better where Varn Drive was than he did. Oh, well!

And now the house. It’s perfect. It’s about 125 square feet smaller than our old house (this one is around 1,550 square feet), plus it has no garage. No garage means we lost a lot of storage. On the other hand, it does have a rough attic. Despite that, we and our belongings fit this house like a glove. I can’t believe how everything we have feels like it was meant for this house, and actually works much better in this house than it did in our old house. The one exception is probably our bedroom set, which is really a little too large for the room. The bed and nightstands do fit on one wall, it’s just a tight squeeze. And that’s after we had already decided to give our tall dresser to the boys for their things. The master bathroom is so small, it reminds me of the hotel/hostel bathrooms I had in Guatemala. The floor is about 4’ x 3’, not counting the shower, which has a half-sized opening to get into it! The best part? I’m pretty sure I can clean the entire bathroom in about 5 minutes and my feet won’t even have to move. We’re truly minimalist bathroom people, so it will serve the two of us just fine. The bedroom has two closets, one two doorway widths wide, and the other about half that width but deeper. All of our clothes easily fit into the first closet (and our long wide dresser), so I would love to see if we can add shelves to the second one and use it for educational supplies.

The back bedroom is carpeted and has a couple of windows looking at the back and side yards. We put in a bunk bed for Amirah & Eli, a twin bed for Raizel and a “funny bed” (what the kids call beds on the floor) for Avi. Plus a dresser for girl clothes and some of their toys. The room feels full, but not crowded despite it's average 10' x 12' size. We had debated between a girls room and a boys room versus a kids room and a play room. Then we needed to figure out a place to put the exercise bike, so play room it was. Not sure what we’ll do with my beloved punching bag, though! For half the year, the sun porch would be perfect, but for the hot months, not so perfect. I’m going to buy under-the-bed boxes for all of our bed sheets to put in their room, then the shelves in their closet can mostly be used for games.

The play room is really pretty – rich wood paneling and wood floors. It feels like a room in the cabins we used to rent in the summers. Very nice feeling. We’ll put all their toys in there, plus a wood table for drawing by the window. Right now it’s a bit of a disaster with toys strewn everywhere, but we’ll get it fixed up soon enough. As soon as we find a bunk bed for the boys, we’ll probably turn it into a boys room, but for now this arrangement will be nice.

Now the kitchen. I love what we decided to do in there. There’s one long 8-foot wall, and one long 6-foot wall. Then there’s the wall with the dishwasher/counter, sink, counter and the other wall with counter, stove/oven, pantry. The kitchen is enclosed, with a swinging door like grandma had (in fact much of the house makes me feel like I’m at grandma’s; it was built in the same era). Along the 8-foot wall we took these industrial strength shelves that we had in the garage and filled up the whole wall with those. I can’t tell you how much I LOVE having that. Because the kitchen is private, it can completely serve practicality rather than aesthetics. It looks plain, but not ugly, and all of my dishes and appliances can be located in a second, with all the taller things on top. Many of my canned goods are there too. It’s also neatly divided, with two dairy shelves, two pareve shelves, two meat shelves, and two canned goods shelves. Underneath on the floor are all eight of our grain barrels. Easy access, so no need to keep smaller amounts in smaller containers like we had before when the barrels were all in the garage. The top has just the right amount of space for our larger things, like canning pots, steam juicer, pressure canner, soy milk machine, pickle crock, fruit drier, etc. It looks full but not crowded, and I’m pretty sure we’ve unpacked everything that will go on those shelves.

The only thing really lacking is additional counter space. There are only two small areas, above the dishwasher and between the sink and the stove. The second space is happily taken up with the kitchenaid, cuisinart, and coffee bean roaster, with enough room leftover to mix a bowl or two but that’s about it. The first space is pretty small. We had thought of getting a restaurant-style stainless steel work surface. They’re very inexpensive (1/8th the cost of a typical butcher block style island), and can be purchased locally at a couple of different restaurant supply stores. Even if we only put in a 2-foot wide island, it would make the kitchen awfully crowded. We’re brainstorming ways to create a kind of “murphy table” that could unfold from the shelving somehow. On the other hand, less surface area, less clutter attraction. We’ll see how it goes with what we’ve got. One thing I really love – the enclosed kitchen. I know it’s very anti-trendy to have a kitchen cut off from the rest of the house, but I LOVE it. I can close both doors if I want to. On shabbos, we won’t have to stare at the mess of dishes.

The dining room is a nice size, and we can be flexible with the space and could arrange tables to easily seat 14 (if I wanted to seat more we’d need another table!). It’s carpeted though (I don’t know why with such beautiful hardwood floors beneath it!), so we’re going to buy a large piece of vinyl to put underneath it. Four young kids and carpet just aren’t a good mix. There are three perfect spots for my three favorite pictures so that will be nice, and there’s a perfect wall for the china cabinet. We were also trying to figure out what to do with a few things we stashed out on the sun porch, such as our chest freezer. Then we did a mind meld and came up with a great place for the freezer, or at least we’ll try it out. We’ll put it in a corner of the living room, make a nice fabric apron for it, and make a tablecloth cover for it in a complementary color that can easily be removed to open the freezer. Then we’ll use it for our shabbat candles, flowers, and sideboard (our table is only three feet wide, so this would be very handy!). I think it will work fine. We’ll move it in tomorrow and see how it looks. [NOTE: It looks fine!]

The living room is just right, and SO much easier to arrange this square space than our old long, rectangular space. Our bookshelves, chairs, and couches just fit just right. Then there’s a little nook near the front door that we’ve turned into a mini office space. More out-of-the-box thinking here. Our old computer desk was a junker so we got rid of it. Dean took another shelf (like what we put in the kitchen). Each section is three feet tall. He used the top board to hold the computer at eye level, and another board to hold the keyboard and mouse at the right level. Surprisingly, it’s incredibly comfortable, and basically free since we had a leftover shelf. I think I’ll make a skirt for this too, then some type of covering for the computer so it too can disappear on shabbos. Eventually, we’d love to make a recessed nook in the wall that the computer sits in, then we just close it up when we’re not using it. We could even use the same shelf we’re using now for the keyboard/mouse, and when the computer was closed up in its nook, it would just look like a side table sitting there. The last part of the living room is another nook that I think is just the right size for our learning table and chairs. I had thought we would just go back to using the kitchen table instead, but I think this will work really well. One last thing about the living room – there are these odd brick planters filled with sand (“Yahoo!!” says Avi). They’re there as room dividers (entry way/living room/dining room). I’m trying to think of some useful purpose for them. Some kind of stacking cubes to put on top for storage, or – bookcases?!? Ikea-style? I’ll have to think about it some more. Bookcases (or cupboards) might be just right. I saw a picture in a magazine once where someone used bookcases to set off the entryway, then on the back of the bookcases by the entry way they put coat hooks. I’ll have to look into that one some more...

And finally, the yards. The back yard is great. Lots of sun for future gardening projects. Lots of space for pet ducks (muscovy, please!). It’s easily 8x bigger than our old yard. The kids are deliriously happy with that. It needs a little fencing so Avi doesn’t wander into the front. [NOTE: Done!] The yard is flat and firm (tough grass), so they can ride bikes all over it. There’s a great big oak tree that will hold a couple of swings before long, no doubt. Nothing much in the way of landscaping, but it’s nice and neat. Ditto for the front. We're imagining our vegetable garden beds in one corner of the yard by the house...

We are very, very pleased with the house. I really hope our other house sells soon (well, first gets the repairs done and gets cleaned up!), and then we can make an offer on this place. I would be very happy to call this place home, and I would really hate to have to move again. The owner is very hopeful we will want to buy it too. It would work out well for all of us, it seems. On first glance, there are only very minor aesthetic changes I would make, like remove the bathroom wallpaper and paint it instead. Put in a stainless steel sink. Remove the (treif) microwave and put in a different one. See if we could switch out the stove for one with gas burners. And remove all the carpets and have the wood floors instead.

What do I think of Savannah? Well... I haven’t seen much beyond our house and the grocery store, but I’ll get out and about soon enough. I love the spring-like winter weather. I love the air here. I love the friendliness, and relaxed pace of everyone we have met. The community has delivered meals to us each night, which has been a huge help. I have a feeling I will really, really love living here. Though honestly, I’d be happy nearly anywhere the six of us are all together. I am awfully glad we ended up here instead of in Pittsburgh or Cleveland. I would have been happy there too (happiness is utterly portable), but I think I’ll REALLY love being here! And I’m really looking forward to being so much closer to shul. Our former castle-on-the-hill was getting way too old. I’ll get lots of pictures soon, especially once the house is put together.

One other note - I'm getting lots of lovely e-mails from friends and family, but for some reason I can receive e-mail but not send it out. Please forgive me if I haven't answered an e-mail (especially from MH - congrats on the referral! And JY - congrats on the birth!). I'll have to have my e-mail on one side and facebook on the other and send messages that way, I guess. Gevalt. Should be fixed soon at any rate. We had a similar problem with our long distance service - we could receive calls but not make them. WEIRD! At least the latter is fixed now.

Good night (morning?)!

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

Over and Out!

This is my last night with a (borrowed) computer since Dean's official last day is tomorrow and he'll have to return the computer. We hit a couple of glitches with the move today, but I'm sure they'll be working themselves out. The first was a glitch with the start date. Too long a story, but the upshot is that Dean has to go to work 12 hours after we arrive in Savannah. Gevalt. I just hope we can produce clean clothes and a sack lunch! He'll work Monday and Tuesday, then have the next five weekdays off. The kids and I will be supervising the unloading of the van in the meantime. I'm sure it will work out fine, especially since I'm just watching the unloading. I'll go play with the kids. Outside! In the back yard! Just got to get those unloaders lined up.

The other glitch was discovering that we will be without insurance during the month of February. Short-term insurance can be had for $365, so that too hasn't turned out too badly. Sure beats COBRA!!! SCAD's HR department was shocked to find out we didn't have coverage continuing from DH's former employer, OHSU (AKA OHS-achoo!). They did a cost-saving measure about a year ago and skipped insurance payments for a month. So instead of paying for the month ahead, employees (and OHSU) were paying for the current month. Saved them a ton of money, and leaves former employees STUCK. Grrrrrrr. OHSU just does not have employee-friendly policies.

All in all, this is really, really small stuff. Tiny blips on the radar. BH our family is healthy, DH is looking forward to a new job, we're looking forward to new adventures for all of us, and hashem has the perfect 8-passenger full-sized van waiting for us in Savannah. Right? :)

We had a lovely going away party at the F-H house. Got to see a lot of people at once. It was a holiday weekend though, so many friends couldn't make it. We've visited friends throughout the last couple of weeks, and have had some very nice visits. We'll be in shul for shabbos, bn, so we should get to see more people then which will be very nice.

We've met with the contractor who will finish fixing up this place. Then it will get thoroughly cleaned (not by us!) and windows washed and it should be good to go. Hopefully on the market by February 1. For $235K, in case anyone is interested. Last spring it went on the market for $265K; our realtor thought it would likely sell for $240-245ish, but we weren't in any rush then. Now we just want to unload it, and our realtor thinks it will go for around $230K. We'll see! It's all funny money, but it's a shame we didn't unload it two years ago. On the other hand, we had a different focus two years ago - adoption! Moving and selling the house weren't exactly on the front burner right then.

So, tomorrow I'll pack up a few more odds and ends, see if our blankets and pillows will fit into two checked luggage bags, add the last of the things to the DUMP pile in the garage, go through our Sunday/Monday food plan to make sure we're more or less covered, add a couple of other things to the kids' airplane backpacks, make a shopping list for that first day or two we're in Savannah, and get ready to vacate! Thursday Dean will be here to help finish up, Friday we'll be getting rid of the car one way or another (salvage or to a friend who will buy it to fix up), make sure all the other details are set, get everyone over to the E house for shabbos. Go to shul (wow). Experience the eruv (double wow) for the first and last time. Then around 5:30 on Sunday morning we'll take a bunch of sleepy kids to the airport. All b'n. :)

I think my mind left when our stuff did. It's definitely been harder to stay on task since then. I'm really just ready to hop on that plane, and I'm looking forward to sitting on real furniture, sleeping on a real bed, and eating around a real table. Tonight our stuff is relaxing in Little Rock, Arkansas. More than two-thirds of the way there!

So, more random, run-on sentences and paragraphs. That's kind of how my head is right now. Looking forward to relaying the coming adventures, and really, really, really looking forward to getting back into our learning routine. We all miss that a lot. Good night!

Friday, January 15, 2010

The Menu

Well, we're managing all right without much of a kitchen. Here's what's in store for this shabbos:

challah
spinach kugel
green salad
roasted potatoes
brisket
roasted zucchini
chocolate tofu ice "cream"
meringues

And for lunch...

French dip lamb sandwiches

The house is pretty empty now. The main problem: with nothing to absorb sound, everything is quite LOUD now. With all the wood floors it just echoes (and echoes and echoes). I don't want to spend much time at home next week. It's just not very pleasant when they're a bit rambunctious. On the other hand, eating on disposables is surprisingly quiet. Mealtimes are very hush, hush. I miss sitting around a table, but the brick fireplace has made an okay substitute for the kids.

The truck is packed and is being picked up in the morning. Off goes our stuff! We'll mail a few boxes in a week, but otherwise we're done. No washing machine, so I've been doing laundry every night in the sink. Not too bad. We still have the drier here. We sent the washing machine ahead and will use the landlord's drier. Our drier we'll just sell. It's been nice to have a way to do laundry semi-efficiently.

Our food supply is dwindling at just the right rate. I hadn't been stocking up like I usually would since we kept hoping to move. We haven't been buying many groceries; just using up what we have around. We're using it all up pretty well. I did stop and get kosher nori and wasabi in case that's not easy to find in Savannah; enough for four meals. Yum. And four boxes of Jo Jos from Trader Joe's. And bringing some Tillamook cheddar with us. We have a 2/$5 coupon somewhere, so hopefully we'll find that soon and lay in a mini-supply. Best cheddar ever; way better than most of the readily-available kosher brands which are mostly just so-so. I sure miss the $2.50/lb kosher cheddar Costco used to carry. Alas. All that plus my Bob grains/beans are the only food supplies I'm bringing. Looking forward to meeting new brands. And we all hope the cottage cheese there is good. We're very much into our cottage cheese around here! I will definitely miss Trader Joe's and Bob's. Small price, however!

The coming week will mostly be about visiting with friends, cleaning up this house, and getting all the repairs scheduled, windows cleaned, carpets steamed, and a final cleaning scheduled after we leave. Lots of little arrangements. Then we'll spend our last shabbos here at the home of very good friends. I can't believe this is the last shabbos in our house! And two weeks from now we'll be in an entirely different city. Really strange to think about it. It still doesn't feel quite real. The move so far has really not felt stressful. Tiring, yes, but there's been a lot to do! We're just definitely doing the right thing for us.

Eli is the only one who has expressed any sorrow about leaving, and only once did he say something. Yesterday he said, "Mama, I don't want to get a new house." I reassured him that we would all miss this house and that we have loved living here for all of his life, and that his new house would have a really big back yard. "But I want a tiny yard," he said. I got a brief, slightly sorrowful snuggle, then he snapped back and roared back into his Eli antics. Not another word about it since. Mostly the kids have expressed gusto for the adventure ahead, but I know the change will be stressful even if it's a really good change.

I just hope the plane ride goes smoothly. The only one I'm really worried about is Avi. I have a feeling we'll be jogging up and down the aisles with him the whole time. He does NOT like to sit still. We have to get up really early on Sunday morning to fly out, so I'm hoping he'll sleep. We'll bring his carseat, and hopefully he'll take a nice long nap in a familiar place.

Well, getting a little ahead of myself. First, the rest of shabbos (I hope!). Good shabbos to all!

Friday, January 8, 2010

The Menu

Ah, shabbos. Phew!

challah
gefilte fish
roasted lamb
roasted zucchini/red pepper/carrot/onion
roasted cabbage
baked potatoes with tofu sour cream
caesar salad
pear cake pudding (?)

HOW TO MAKE SHABBOS IN 90 MINUTES:
First, roast your beans, and make a REALLY good cup of coffee. Then have another cup.

Chop, chop, chop the veggies.

Take all the fat off the meats (lamb for today, chicken for tomorrow) (CAVEAT EMPTOR: Solomon's "lamb roasts" look like a good deal, but rolled into the center of the "roast" are the biggest pieces of fat I've ever seen attached to meat; I weighed it and they have consistently been 35–40% FAT; lamb is never a frugal option, and this makes it completely afrugal; gevalt).

Visit your friendly garage freezer and pull out lots of challah, one of the 87 (okay, 6) salmon gefilte fish loafs you made a few months ago, and a ginger pear loaf cake that's much too small because you cut off the burnt edges.

Throw everything into the oven that needs to go in the oven.

Cut up the cake, add soy milk, eggs and brown sugar. Cut up three pears, mash it all together and bake (and yes, it turned out fine!).

Whiz together the tofu sour cream, then the salad dressing.

DONE!

OOPS. Forgot the croutons. One hour to go, more or less. Can probably squeeze those in. :)

I realized this morning that this was our last chance to visit our beloved Bob's Red Mill. We went and got 50 pounds of flour, black beans, chick peas, oat bran, popcorn, and organic soy beans (I had a 50% off coupon, so saved $20 on those!). A little teff flour too so we can make injera (Ethiopian flatbread) a few times. We had a little snack there, said goodbye to the mill wheel, said goodbye to the real Bob who was there passing out popcorn, and brought home something to refill our grain barrels which are heading towards empty. Yes, I know they have all this and more in Savannah, but I have an irrational attachment to Bob's beans and grains. And why pack the truck with stuff half-full? We're paying by the linear foot, not the pound, so might as well fill as many empty spaces as we can. I also found out that if we put together 500-pound orders, they will do free freight shipping. I bought 175 pounds of stuff today, so if I found a few other Bob aficionados, maybe we could put together a big order. Ah. Sniff, sniff. Something burning? Better run!

Thursday, January 7, 2010

Quote of the Week #2

This afternoon we went to pick up papa at work. Amirah and Eli asked what the arrow on a nearby sign was for. I said that it pointed to the entrance to the School of Nursing (where papa works).

Amirah: Does that mean papa is learning to nurse?

:)

Um, no!

Quote of the Week

I snuggled with Eli and talked quietly with him after everyone else had gone to sleep last night. Ah, boy cuddles.

Eli: Mama, I think I only have one story in my head.
Mama: Why do you think you only have one story in your head?
Eli: Every night I have the same dream. I dream that a train comes straight out of my body, flies up to the sky, and after a while comes back again.
Mama: What does your train look like?
Eli: It's the color of air.

A neshama (soul) dream for sure...

Wednesday, January 6, 2010

Packing, Packing, Packing

No time to write much. There's a lot of packing to be done. Add that to the regular to-dos that a family of six that learns at home has on their plate and - WOW - there's a lot to do! We're doing minimal learning time right now, and next week we might take completely off. After lunch I've mostly worked on packing, which for the kids pales in comparison to the usual interesting learning or outings we do. Considering, the kids have been great, and even though I really don't want to with the moving truck arrival looming, I think tomorrow we'll take the morning and go to OMSI and have a good time there. Dean and I will have all day Sunday and Monday to get the rest of the stuff ready to go on the truck. The kids will go to the neighbors for a couple of hours on Monday, and I have a couple of other friends who have offered to take them for a little while. I'm actually enjoying the packing a lot. Whittling down our possessions even further, more loads to Good Will, lots of recycling going out. I would say we're probably 50% packed at this point, so not too bad. I'm trying to finish off an entire room each day.

Wow, that was a few run-on sentences! Kind of like my days. I won't even try to edit them. I'm pretty darn tired. I even dozed for an hour when I put the kids to bed tonight. I also realized I don't have to make what we don't put on the moving truck fit perfectly into our luggage. We can just mail a couple of boxes to Savannah our last day here. Being in a house with no furniture for a week will be a bit odd, and I haven't quite pictured how that will be. Picnics?? We can borrow some folding chairs, probably. Maybe even a little table. Probably a bed too. The kids *love* sleeping on the floor, though. That's their favorite kind of bed. We call it a "funny bed."

If I keep typing I'll just write random snatches of things that pop into my head, so it's probably best that I get this tired mama to bed so she can leap up tomorrow morning, make a picnic, and take The Band to OMSI.

Which reminds me... we just finished the 2,481 pages of the Guardians of Ga'Hoole series on shabbat. What a *fantastic* series of books. We did not read books 9-11 in the series (that would have made the series over 3,000 pages!). I just learned that these were not originally intended to be part of the series, but rather a spinoff series. We started book 9, but were impatient to get back to the characters and story we had enjoyed so much in books 1–8.

The author, Kathryn Lasky, has also written quite a bit of historical fiction for children and we are looking forward to reading those books too. I can't say enough good things about this series - the language, the role models for good character, compelling plot, the distinctly Jewish flavor, everything. It was very, very sad that we reached the conclusion. I'm finding that good contemporary children's literature is very, very hard to find. Now, really, off to bed.

Friday, January 1, 2010

The Menu

Phew! What a week! Here's the menu...

challah
brisket
mashed potatoes
steamed spelt
steamed carrots
caesar salad
zucchini latkes
cranberry coconut ice "cream"

and for lunch...

salmon gefilte fish
lamb stew
marinated mushrooms
spelt salad
pear crisp
and everything else from dinner

11 days until the moving truck arrives! We changed it to come on the 12th so we stand a good chance of having our things the day after we arrive. I think it's easier to live here for a week+ without beds, kitchen stuff, etc., than it would be to live there. So... oy va voy, here we go! Still surreal.